By 4pm the panic was setting in.
I begin to think about dinner, cleaning up, baths, stories, and hopefully bedtime and I realise yet another day has passed and things haven't changed.
When my children eventually settle to sleep my mind will run through all the missed opportunities, all the forms I never quite had time to fill in and all the moments I left my children to entertain themselves.
Did I do enough today to help them?
Did I do any of the exercises the physiotherapist told me I should?
Did I teach them anything or encourage any social skills?
Even if I did something, was it enough?
If I read my children's speech reports I am reminded of all the times today I forgot to use pictures to reinforce understanding.
And why do I suddenly remember all about makaton signs the second my child has fallen asleep?
Even more important I am not my child's speech and language therapist.
I am his mum. I can never be 'enough' for his speech and language development as that is not my speciality. So I could do more!
What parent can say they honestly do all the exercises with their speech delayed child all the time?
Once again another day has passed and we never did those leg strengthening exercises she hates, or invented games that required rolling.
When I was busy cooking I noticed she was sitting in that 'W' shape again and I left her too it.
I never did enough. Actually I don't think I have ever done enough to satisfy her physical needs.
I feel guilt about that daily but then I am sure all parents feel like this sometimes?
Maybe it is just me?
Not the most ideal thing according to therapists I know, but sometimes I just can't do it all.
I even put my two autistic children in the car and went somewhere today without first reading them a social story about it, showing visuals and going through the route on google street maps!
Oh dear, no brownie points for me today!
The fact is they survived. I survived.
We lived to see another day, and yes I will always feel guilt at what we didn't do in terms of therapy or research or exercises.
They had more than enough of my time.
They had more than enough to eat and drink.
They have more than enough toys and technology.
They have more than enough clothes to wear.
They have more than enough access to medical and educational support.
They have more than enough love.
Never let your child's struggles make you feel less than as a parent.
You ARE enough!
Your love, encouragement, support and dedication WILL be enough.
Did you make it through another day?
You were enough today and you will be enough tomorrow.
Never ever forget that!
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