Ah, end of term.
Proud parents just as excited as their children, relieved teachers glad to show that someone really loved their teaching and halls full of eager little ones hoping and praying their name will be called.
You already know social media and family gatherings will be all about little Jane who had a distinction in maths, or young Brian who scored the most goals for the school football team this year...but what about all those children sitting through the ceremony, year after year longing for their name to be called yet never hearing it.
What about the children who have found the school year exhausting, who have struggled to master ten new spelling words a month and who have needed support every single term?
What about the child whose parents have separated this year meaning she has had huge difficulty focussing and has slipped down the ability chart as a result?
What about the child for whom just getting through a single day with the noise, bright lights and confusing smells is a huge achievement?
What about the children like mine?
Each year they become more and more disappointed.
Each year their self-worth and excitement gets less.
They will never be top of the class, or excel at sports or get the starring role in the school play.
It has huge advantages but at this time of year of competition and recognising achievement it can be so demoralising for a child who has tried their best day in and day out and still never hears their name at the award ceremony.
I wish I could speak to every one of those children.
I wish could hug every one of their parents.
I know how hard it can be to clap and cheer every achievement announced, knowing your child can never compete or be in for a chance of winning something.
Stay strong children. Stay strong parents.
In cheering on others and noting their success you are developing character, and if that was ever measured you would both win without a doubt.
If there were awards for perseverance, for strength, tenacity and determination YOU would be the winner. If there were awards for fighting spirit, purity and trying they would be calling out your name loudly.
Until that day, if your name is never called at that award ceremony stay strong.
Your self-worth is not measured by certificates. Your importance is not measured by how many people cheer.
You are important. You are worthy and you are special. You are the best at being you and that is better than any award that any school can offer.
I'm not sure if you can hear it little one, but I am cheering you on!
Keep up the great work!
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